• kinsnik@lemmy.world
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    15 days ago

    The only time you would ever need to use someone’s pronouns is when they’re not part of the conversation anyway.

    no? it would be weird to use in a one-on-one conversation, true. but it is fairly common to use the third person pronoun of someone during a group conversation, even while they are there

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      15 days ago

      I don’t do this, and growing up was taught that it was rude to refer to someone by anything other than their name in a group conversation.

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      14 days ago

      it is fairly common to use the third person pronoun of someone during a group conversation, even while they are there

      But is improper to do so. The proper way to refer to a person who is present is by using their name.