• surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
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        28 days ago

        Sure. People aren’t neurotic in this context. This situation is what’s commonly called a “you problem”.

        • intensely_human@lemm.ee
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          28 days ago

          No, being unwilling to tell someone “I missed you the most” for fear of hurting others’ feelings is indeed neurotic. It’s too much, unhelpful, inhibits communication and expression of perfectly healthy emotions.

          • pyre@lemmy.world
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            28 days ago

            no it’s not. caring about other people’s feelings is normal human behavior. stop this nonsense and work on your mirror neurons.