• cRazi_man@lemm.ee
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    7 days ago

    Parenthood is already desirable. There’s a biological drive and social conditioning to desire it for most people. The disincentives have just become overwhelming. Children take a hell of a lot of resources. Every aspect of modern society has drained all the time, money, energy, emotional resiliance, social support, etc that people need.

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      There are many other social factors that make parenthood undesirable in Japan that this does not address.

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      I’m logically aware that’s the case for other people, but I find it perplexing why often times. I was sterilized in my mid 20s, and I haven’t ever regretted it.

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        Same. I suspect fomo. I experience that for other things but I never bought that kids thing.