• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    7 days ago

    A month? I’ve known guys for years and still don’t know their names and it is WAY too late to ask.

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      7 days ago

      That’s when you figure out a reason to hand them a clipboard and say, “Imma need you to sign in.”

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    6 days ago

    When I was around 20yo, I spent a summer with a new group of friends pretending I knew everyone’s names. It was anxiety hell. Today, I realize that I can just admit that I forget names and ask and it’s no problem. But that was an interesting summer.

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      5 days ago

      When I first started work I was in shop where there were three Bills, two Phil’s and two Neil’s . I never ever worked out who was who.

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      6 days ago

      Bro, homie, dawg, phil

      It’s easy to go years without knowing names, better if you don’t use that last one

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    6 days ago

    why say their name when you could instead say “guy” or “man”, or, occasionally, “buddy”?

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      6 days ago

      Excellent point, if you’re just 1 on 1 with someone you dont need their name except to talk about them with someone else.

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        5 days ago

        I’m always terrible with names but they do come in handy

        Hey,who’s working ____'s shift Thursday?

        Who do I need to talk to in HR?

        who makes the schedule?

        Ask ___ if they can cover your shift.

        Email ____ for me and see if they have a copy of that report.

        Can you tell ___ to come see me.

    • MutilationWave@lemmy.world
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      6 days ago

      Here’s a fun way to play it- say “We’ve talked so many times over the years, and I bet you don’t even know my name.”

      If he does, explain that you said that because you don’t know his, laugh about it. Get his name and put it in your phone if you think you’ll forget.

      If he doesn’t, then say “Well we’re in the same boat because I don’t know yours!” Exchange names, and put it in your phone if you think you’ll forget.

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    5 days ago

    Once sat at the same table as another guy in high school every weekday for six months. We traded less than ten words in that time. Later we became great friends.